When the BIGGEST obstacle turns out to be the BIGGEST resource

by | Apr 15, 2019

She was done.

After all these years, she was done with playing small.

Shining her light, and stepping INTO her power was what needed to happen.

But there was a very familiar fear holding her back.

She felt it in her heart and solar plexus. It felt like a mouldable eraser. Black. It had become stiff over the years. And whenever something *might* disappoint or hurt her, it would spread itself into her arms and legs, erasing joy.

To protect her.

Now, she could feel the love of this eraser. The way she could count on it. Lean into it.

And it was clear to her that the way it was doing its job was not serving her anymore.

So we went to work.

Things happened and evolved and emerged.

And along a host of other things, towards the end of this first session, the black eraser had turned into a black ball, that was in her pelvis, and warming up. AND IT FELT SO GOOD for her. It was giving her the sense of solidity she had been lacking. The sense of actually being here, on Earth, in her body.

She was grounded like never before. A very tangible shift in her physical body, as well as her energy body was what she shared.

I could see it happening in front of me. It never fails to surprise me. And it always fills me with awe.

(Who would have thought, this is how it wanted to be? It’s always such a good sign to me, when I couldn’t predict how things would unfold. It means I am in the moment, and open to all possibilities as a coach.)

And the best part?

She messaged me the day after. How this new way of being feels so strong. How she had changed half the words on her website. Because she just *knows* now what the words should be.

She knows what she wants.

She knows what to do.

And I am so happy for her.

PS. Want to know how to do this work? Send us an email and we can have a no-strings attached chat. We have a 6-week Foundation Course coming up soon: The Feminine in Coaching. And it may just be perfect for you!

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Love that you are here! It’s a pleasure to share what I’ve learned in 25 yrs of coaching and teaching coaches since 2006. At the Academy for Soul-based Coaching, the team and me have reached 1000s of coaches, therapists and healers, helping them have phenomenal, embodied results.

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