Something important to realise

by | May 5, 2019

Someone in our coach training shared with me that she couldn’t yet imagine having a successful coaching practice. I am so glad that she did!

I told her something that is really important, and that I want all of you to know:
“I definitely invite you to allow yourself to dream about what a successful practice could look like for you. If you can’t see it, it’s hard to call into being. And you can just allow yourself to dream and hold it lightly. Savour the dream and not get into the ‘but how’ of it all. That can come later. First allow yourself to REALLY feel it, embody it.”

This is half the work done. And I am not kidding.

We are used to obsessing and worrying about the details, and think we need to know how we can make things work before we can feel the amazingness of it. I was so good at this, I might have been world champion (though actually, my mom is even better).

What if I told you that the most important thing I do to make my business grow is to feel into what my goals feel like ones they have been reached, Ho’Oponopono a lot on the fears, beliefs and worries that come up, and rejoice in knowing that is what I will be co-creating with the Universe. And from that feeling, and my embodied sense of what I’d like to have happen, I ask: and what can I do to support that happening? And then listen to my INTUITION rather than my head.

And WAIT for the answer.

The answer may not be logical, it may seem like a tangent, but I promise you, it will help invoke the results you want. This is exactly how the Self-study version of our coach training happened and was immediately picked up on by people that were really happy this was possible.

And I have a lot more examples.

Before, I used to think and worry a lot about how to create the results and call in new clients and students.
I don’t anymore, and business is flowing so much easier.
And the funny thing is, it’s not feeling easier because there is more flow.

There is more inward flow of clients and money because the feeling of joy and ease is there first. And that’s what I work ‘hard’ on. It’s literally the first thing I do each day: make sure that I am in the energy that is fully resonant what I would like to have happen.

How?
Start by allowing yourself to dream: WWYLTHH with your business? Sky is literally the limit, you don’t have to know any of the HOWs yet. Focus on the WHAT and the WHY.
Log your fears/beliefs that are triggered.
Ho’Oponopono, tap (EFT), or self-coach with SBC on each fear/belief. Take as long as it takes until you feel free and happy and light when you think of your DO for your business. Do this every day. It will become quicker and easier, the more you clean up.
On top of that, you could ask someone else for SBC coaching to develop your vision and clear those blocks.
And once you are in the right state, ask that question: what can I do to help this come about? And wait for the answer from your intuition.
And TAKE ACTION. Stay with the process until you take action in this way.

Rinse & repeat (even when you don’t see immediate results – that’s very important. As soon as you start doubting and worrying, you have left the state you need to call things forward). Stay in the joy of co-creating your dream with the universe. Learn to trust its perfect unfolding, especially when you continue to show up like this.

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Much love,

Annemiek

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ANNEMIEK VAN HELSDINGEN

Love that you are here! It’s a pleasure to share what I’ve learned in 25 yrs of coaching and teaching coaches since 2006. At the Academy for Soul-based Coaching, the team and me have reached 1000s of coaches, therapists and healers, helping them have phenomenal, embodied results.

On a personal note, I’m a bi-sexual, perimenopausal (read sleep-deprived) self-anointed Priestess who craves the spiritual as much as I do the practical, connecting seeming opposites in true Gemini style – and that is about all I know about astrology.

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