Cognitive Bypassing is fantastic ..

Cognitive Bypassing is fantastic ..

Cognitive bypassing is fantastic.. It is the act of thinking and analysing (including wondering and doubting) and finding the reasoning for how what we are going through makes perfect sense, what we should be doing, what is hard about that, why it hasn’t...
The anatomy of a Desired Outcome

The anatomy of a Desired Outcome

There is more to how our clients tell us what they want: let’s look at the anatomy of the Desired Outcome. Maybe you’ve noticed how sometimes clients start a session by saying: ‘I want to get confident’ while other times, it’s more like:...
Soul is a big claim

Soul is a big claim

For the remnants of my old corporate mind, working with ‘Soul’ is a big claim, something that won’t be taken seriously. For my priestess self, working with soul it is exactly what needs to happen. To this part of me, anything else is pointless. I...
How can we tell that we listen well?

How can we tell that we listen well?

[NEW podcast episode Soul-based Coaching Whispers: The Four levels of Listening]   We all agree that listening is one of the most important skills as a coach.  So here is an interesting question: how can you tell you listen well?    Part of honing and...