We all have periods in our lives that are very hard. When we wonder if we will even get to the other side. Faced with a new truth that pulls the rug from under us. When part of us is dying because we face big loss. Or when we need to shed essential ideas of who we...
Cognitive bypassing is fantastic.. It is the act of thinking and analysing (including wondering and doubting) and finding the reasoning for how what we are going through makes perfect sense, what we should be doing, what is hard about that, why it hasn't happened yet...
Most modern mystics spend a lot of time figuring out their relationship to ‘that which is within us all and yet is bigger than any of us’. It often takes a while before we dare to talk about it as the Divine - whatever that label means to us. Because on the surface of...
Friday, noon. I settle in for my coaching call. My client comes in sharing she is navigating 'rough seas'. We light a candle and presence ourselves. And what happens next is nothing short of miraculous. Through waves of unfolding, we follow the trail of her embodied...
There is more to how our clients tell us what they want: let's look at the anatomy of the Desired Outcome. Maybe you've noticed how sometimes clients start a session by saying: 'I want to get confident' while other times, it's more like: 'I want to start to feel into...
For the remnants of my old corporate mind, working with 'Soul' is a big claim, something that won't be taken seriously. For my priestess self, working with soul it is exactly what needs to happen. To this part of me, anything else is pointless. I can't tell you how...
[NEW podcast episode Soul-based Coaching Whispers: The Four levels of Listening] We all agree that listening is one of the most important skills as a coach. So here is an interesting question: how can you tell you listen well? Part of honing and...
Do you DO something, or trust clients to find their own answers? You may recognise this in some shape or form. When someone hurts, you want to help them. Especially if they voice it or show it in a way that is familiar to you: Feelings of anger, frustration,...
This article was originally published on Authority Magazine. Being vulnerable and authentic are some of today's popular buzzwords. It may seem counterintuitive to be vulnerable, as many of us have been taught to project an air of confidence, be a boss, and act like...
